Most people want a healthy loving relationship, but in reality, that is not what they get, at least until they have healed the deep inner wounds.
Here are some of the “love problems” people come to me with:
- Finding themself attracted or pulled to unavailable men or women?
- Feeling like a love-sick puppy in their relationships
- Overgiving in relationships, this might be time, energy, money, sexually, or a combination of these, and only get breadcrumbs back
- Chasing men or women that treat them badly
- Obsessive thinking, wondering where he is, what he is doing, what he is thinking about
- Giving into their partner's sexual demands and violating their own sexual boundaries
- Feeling like they can’t live without their other half, feel worried, powerless, or helpless without them
- Feeling so badly about themselves and their body, that they don’t have the confidence to date
Can you identify with any of the above? If you answered yes, you have unconscious patterns sabotaging your soul mate connection and I can help you resolve this!
Sometimes people ask me, why am I attracted to this type of man or woman? What is helpful to understand is that their strong attraction to this type of man or woman is often because it is buried in their unconscious mind, and they are not yet in touch with it
Our unconscious mind has huge power and drives our choices and behaviors. To change our Soul Mate connection we need to look at our unconscious motivations.
We often have strong attractions to people, dynamics, and things that are not good for us, here are a few:
- People who are toxic for us! We may be attracted to them because it feels like home, maybe you are trying to resolve something with a parent, such as the way you were rejected so you are unconsciously drawn to men who reject you. Your unconscious mind may be trying to resolve the pattern of rejection and invalidate the faulty beliefs you developed about yourself based on the original rejection. The unconscious might believe that “if I can get them to stop rejecting me, it proves I am not worthless and there is nothing wrong with me” - as you can see, your unconscious mind is actually trying to help you to get FREE.
- You find yourself in a cycle of push and pull with your partners, I want you, I don’t want you. Maybe your partners are mirroring something inside you. There may be conflicting wants and desires in your unconscious mind. A part of you wants the relationship and another part wants to be free, so there's comfort on some level in this dynamic
- You are tired of over-giving in relationships, maybe you are so tired that you have given up or on some level, you don’t want a relationship because it feels like being in a relationship means you lose yourself. You find yourself feeling trapped in the same dynamic and wonder why. It might be the echoes of childhood abandonment or trauma that keep you going back. The pain of the abandonment was so bad and left such a strong mark that parts of you will settle for anything, as long as you are not abandoned.
- You find yourself chasing the wrong person, feeling terrible afterward but yet you still do it, it gives you a thrill, like a drug. Maybe you became so used to chaos in your childhood that your mind is addicted to it in the now!
- You find yourself in abusive relationships, maybe they put you down, and make snarky comments but you don’t leave. Unconsciously you may not realize you deserve better!
To get into alignment with our Soul Mate, we need to look at and change our unconscious motivation and limitations, if we don’t we will find ourselves in the same old situation time and time again.
This 2-day energy clearing course is designed to:
- Help you get clear on what you want from your soul mate relationship (even if you have not yet met your soulmate!)
- Identify and release unconscious motivations, patterns, behaviors, and traumas that are keeping you out of alignment with your ideal Soul Mate
- Energetically upgrade your internal relationship template
- Increase your capacity to love yourself and know what you deserve
- Resolve past betrayals and heartbreak
- Release the baggage stopping you from having the connection you desire
- Put an end to settling in relationships and truly, unequivocally know your worth
- Energetically call in your most compatible soul mate or upgrade your current relationship