So many of us experience abuse without realising it, but there is a quick and lasting solution. 

Behind every conflict is an underlying issue that needs to be transformed, so that you can transcend the trauma and set yourself free. 

When we grow up in a home where all our needs are met, we develop a clear and stable sense of self. Of course, getting all of our needs met is extremely rare. Sometimes we don’t even know what our needs are, therefore other people determine them for us.

 Many of us grow up experiencing trauma, be it through poverty, a parent who is unstable and unsafe or even battling sickness or addiction. As a result, the mind becomes a refuge and splits into different personas, which I refer to as the ‘parts’ of fragmentation. At one time, these ‘parts’ helped the individual cope, however, their conflicting needs can keep us from functioning and thriving in adulthood. As an adult, this can cause immense internal conflict; keeping us stuck and never manifesting our dreams. It can damage intimate relationships and be the root cause of addictions. Echoes of abuse can run throughout our lives; leaving a long-lasting impact that can come from a one off trauma-filled event or a series of traumatic experiences.

SO MUCH OF THIS CAN LEAVE US FEELING:

Worthless, useless and exhausted where just getting through everyday life is a struggle. Doubtful and second-guessing ourselves as we question everything in our lives. Desperate for approval and living our lives for everyone else. 

A sense of dread like danger is lurking around every corner. 

Hypervigilant, hyperalert or hypersensitive to everything around us. 

Numb, empty or out of our bodies to the point where we’ve lost touch with who we are. Hopeless and helpless like everything is going wrong and there is no point to life. 

How we take on other people's points of view 

When we experience abuse, it is common to take on the perspective of the person who is perpetrating the abuse. If they see us as ‘bad’ and ‘wrong’, we often see this as truth. We take on the opinions and projections of others and turn them into who we THINK we are. The outcome? A distorted identity that isn’t ‘us’ - feeling 'defective', 'wrong', 'bad' or 'rotten to the core' in every area of our lives … a heavy burden that we can carry tirelessly, day by day. 

ANY OF THIS CAN MANIFEST AS: 

Abuse can be experienced as emotional, mental, physical or energetic. It can come in the form of verbal criticism, repeated disapproval or even the refusal of acceptance and validation. It can be hidden or visible. No matter how it manifests, we don’t have to carry this in us forever… 

You are not to blame… 

The ‘fault’, so to speak, lies in our programming … we re-enact what is done to us in an attempt to resolve it, especially when we experienced trauma at an early age, where our behaviours became a survival mechanism or automatic response. 

What is done can be undone… 

Come and join me on a transformational 3-day journey, where I will guide you through a radical, metamorphic process that helps you undo this early programming and begin to integrate those fragmented parts into one. I will share with you a unique combination of tools I have developed over 12 years of eradicating abuse from myself and the clients I work with globally. This a powerful 

facilitation that will help you let go of all the limiting beliefs, judgments and lies you’ve taken onboard; empowering you to uncover and connect to your true self and return to the natural state of joy that is your birthright.